Step 1 is to examine the agenda of the troublesome part.
Step 2 is to take the lie out of it.
For example, the shopaholic part wants to make you look thinner, which is wonderful … but you
may have to face the fact there is no perfect outfit and the best way to look slim is to start
exercising and stop snacking.Another process I sometimes use is to look at that part’s original
purpose, and then to take away not the purpose but the trap within it.For
instance someone in a relationship may want their partner to feel they are trustworthy, but if
they go about it in the wrong way they may actually destroy what they’re trying to preserve and
protect. The good news is your behaviours and decisions do not need to be controlled by an
aspect of yourself which may have the right idea but the wrong method. If you’re feeling stuck
or out of control in an aspect of your life, let’s see what part is in control and how we can
put it to better use.
We can assess your situation and determine if parts therapy will help you… just give me a call
and we can talk. 647.261.3733
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