help with divorce

Sometimes no matter of our dreams or hopes, we come to the point where a relationship is no longer healthy anymore and as couples we owe it to our health and sanity to let go of the relationship.

               You have a choice of how this will affect the
              rest of your and your families life
:

       bad divorce handling   good divorce counceling
               THIS???              OR THIS????

People end up in divorcing, because they wait too long to find solutions to the problems in their relationship.
When it comes to our families or relationships, all of the sudden we become secretive, cant admit there is something not working right, don’t want to look for advice or help outside.
But these people have forgotten, that nobody ever TOUGHT them how to build a relationship, one has to be an expert at in a relationships.


- We need to know how to fight fairly;

- to realize criticism is not personal attack unless we make it so…in a healthy relationship the couple is able to fight, make-up, forgive and get on with the relationship.

- We need to know how to be flexible…today I am wrong tomorrow you might be and we both are not better or worse people because of that.

- The worst killer in a relationship is the mentality of “my way or the highway” which only creates resentment and hate.

If you are thinking about divorce, leave no options open, when it comes to trying to solve the problems in your marriage. And if you are absolutely sure that divorce is the only way to go, both of you need to find a way of separating with respect and humility! 

Talk to an expert - a neutral person who can reframe a problem that might look like an unsurpassable mountain into chunks of do-able little journeys, that get you over that mountain safe.

Divorce counselling for couples:

first 2 hour session: 200.00

follow-up 90 min. sessions: 150.00

contact Margit now for your fist appointment

 

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... Kind words:

Our family wants to thank you for helping us through the process of separating without making ugly mistakes of nastiness and anger. Although our marriage is over, you taught us to finish in a way that allows us to still look into each others eyes without hate.

....P.& J. Scarborough